Today is the country’s national day. Today the Romanians celebrate the “unification” of Romania in 1918. Now, not all people in Romania celebrate this event. Therefore for me it is a bit stupid that this date was chosen as the national day. Because a national day should engage each citizen, or should be relevant to them at least. But it is not for around 7% of the population. More then that, it is considered a tragedy for 7% of the population, more like a national day of mourning.
Transylvania was part of Hungary till this day, and this unification after the First World War meant that this land became part of Romania. Transylvania basically was a gift for Romania for its role in the second part of the “Big Fight”. Before this day in Transylvania the majority of the population was Hungarian (Transilvanya considered as old traditional province and not in the form considered today)and since then it started the “reshaping” of the population which lead to a majority of Romanian population nowadays. 1/5th of the Hungarians went to Hungary right after the unification and later more in a forced way the ethnic % has been changed (especially during the communism).
For the Hungarians this “unification” is a tragedy because it means separation from the mother land and the ethnic changes following this. I think the best books about this were written by Wass Albert (available in English on Amazon). The dude is highly controversial (charged with war crimes by Romania); however his books are very good, they describe very well what happened in the period after that. I heard a lot about this period from my grandfather as well and his books are just like those stories of him.
I think it is not a lack of patriotism, or it is not nationalism the fact the Hungarians can’t celebrate this day. I think it is natural and therefore I think the national day should be another day, which is more relevant to the entire population. For example could be the Revolution in 1989 instead, where all the nations were fighting the communism together.
I understand why it is a reason to celebrate for Romanians and it makes sense for them for sure, but is never likely to be a celebration for Hungarians.
The embassy here in Singapore had an event where I hoped to eat some Romanian food, but unfortunately they did not have any this time. And I think it was not the most successful event (boring speeches, bad food, etc) but it was good to see some old friends and to catch up on what’s going on at home. And the room was nicely decorated, this ice thing was really really cool.

And some Romanian wine tasting:

Happy celebration my Romanian friends!